Au pairs & host families, worldwide

    Find Your Perfect Au Pair Match

    Connect with au pairs and host families worldwide. Cultural exchange starts here.

    Connecting Au Pairs and Host Families Worldwide

    An au pair is a young person who lives with a host family abroad, providing childcare and light household help in return for accommodation, meals, and a weekly allowance. Most au pairs stay between 6 and 24 months, gaining language skills and experiencing daily life in a new country firsthand.

    Host families benefit from flexible, personalised childcare that fits naturally into family life. Children gain language exposure and early experience of cultural diversity, while parents enjoy the reassurance of a caregiver who becomes a genuine part of the household.

    AuPairsy makes the connection simple. Whether you are a host family searching for the right au pair, or an au pair looking for a welcoming home abroad, our platform gives you the tools to search, match, and communicate — safely, in one place.

    A successful match is built on clear expectations. Before an au pair arrives, families and au pairs agree on working hours, pocket money, days off, language-course time and house rules — ideally in a written agreement. Getting these details right early is what turns a placement into a genuinely rewarding year for everyone involved.

    Requirements differ from country to country. Some nations run dedicated au pair visa programmes with set allowances and hour limits, while others treat au pairs as employees or use working-holiday routes. Our country guides explain how it works in each destination, with links to official government sources so you can plan with confidence.

    What is an au pair — and why choose AuPairsy?

    An au pair is not a nanny or a domestic employee. They are a young person, usually aged 18 to 30, who joins your family as a temporary member of the household for a cultural exchange — sharing your daily routines, helping with the children, and learning your language and way of life. In return, the family provides a private room, meals and a weekly allowance.

    That cultural-exchange spirit is exactly what AuPairsy is built around. Instead of anonymous listings, you create a real profile, search by country, language and availability, and only start messaging once there is genuine mutual interest. Every member belongs to an actively moderated community with secure on-platform messaging, block-and-report tools, and clear safety guidance.

    AuPairsy is also genuinely international. The platform works in ten languages, and our country guides walk host families and au pairs through the rules, costs and visa routes in popular destinations around the world — so wherever in the world your match lives, you can take the next step with confidence.

    Popular au pair destinations

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    How Au Pair & Family Matching Works

    Finding your perfect au pair or host family is simple

    Step 1

    Create Your Profile

    Sign up and tell us about yourself — your family or your au pair experience, preferences, and what you're looking for.

    Step 2

    Discover Matches

    Browse profiles from around the world. Filter by country, language, availability, and more to find the right fit.

    Step 3

    Express Interest

    Like a profile? Express interest for free. When there's a mutual match, start a conversation.

    Step 4

    Connect & Arrange

    Chat, video call, and get to know each other. Arrange the details and start your cultural exchange journey.

    Safety and moderation at AuPairsy

    Safety and trust are at the heart of everything we do

    Safety & Moderation

    An actively moderated community to help keep all members safe.

    Block & report tools

    Members can block users and report safety, fraud, or illegal-content concerns.

    Clear contact points

    Support, legal, privacy, and DSA contact points are published for users and authorities.

    Secure Messaging

    All communications are encrypted and kept safely on our platform

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Simple, Transparent Pricing

    Choose the plan that fits your needs. Au pairs always browse free.

    Free

    €0/ month

    • Browse all profiles
    • Express interest
    • Basic search & filters
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    Premium

    €19.99/ month

    • 15 contacts per month
    • Direct messaging
    • Priority in search results
    • Read receipts

    Premium Plus

    €29.99/ month

    • Unlimited contacts
    • Featured profile badge
    • Priority support

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